
How to set up a family safe word
Four steps to agree a private word that a cloned voice cannot know.
Most voice scams follow one script: a trusted voice, an emergency, and a demand for fast, hard-to-reverse payment. These are eight common types.


A caller sounds exactly like someone you love and needs money now. How the copy is made and why it works.

A "grandchild" is in jail or hurt and begs you not to tell their parents.

A relative has had an accident or been arrested abroad and needs a fee paid today.

Someone claims to be holding a family member and demands a ransom while you stay on the line.

Your boss calls asking for an urgent, confidential payment to a new account.

"Your bank" says your account is at risk and asks you to move money somewhere safe.

A caller tries to get you to say "yes", then hangs up. What it can and cannot be used for.

A "police officer" or "tax official" says you owe a fine and must pay today.
The stories change, but the defence stays the same. You do not need to know which scam you are facing to stay safe.
Share this page with older relatives. Reading the scripts once, before a call comes, makes them much easier to recognise when it matters.
Calls pretending to be from a bank, a government office or a well-known company are the most common. Family emergency calls, including the grandparent scam, play on love and panic instead.
No. Many scam calls still use a real person reading a script or a recorded message. A cloned voice is a newer tool that makes family emergency calls more convincing. The advice is the same either way: hang up and call back on a number you know. How an AI voice cloning scam works.
Anyone with a phone. Older people are often targeted with family emergency calls, and working adults with fake boss or bank calls. Scammers look for people whose relatives post videos online, because that gives them a voice to copy. How to protect elderly parents.
Hang up and call the person or organisation back on a number you already have, such as the one in your contacts or on the back of your bank card. Ask for your family safe word. A real caller will understand. How to set up a family safe word.